My four year old cousin was lucky enough to get a remote controlled car today.
It had one of those awkward remotes with a trigger to control the speed and a small wheel to control the steering.
After a bit of back and forth trying to explain how this worked, it became clear that he was not at all interested in the wheel on the remote controller.
He drove the car from one side of the yard to the other, ran over to it pick it up and pointed it the other way to drive it back.
It’s not that he hadn’t seen how it could be used, nor that he didn’t think he was capable of learning how to do so.
It simply wasn’t important to him that the car was able to turn.
He was perfectly happy chasing it up and down the yard in straight lines.
He had no need to optimise his experience despite the fact that everyone around him thought they knew better.
When you’re busy optimising your own experience, the same applies.
There will be people who simply won’t understand the improvements you’re trying to make.
Some might even get frustrated by the fact that you’re so focussed on your steering wheel.
At the end of the day, everyone’s racing their own race.
Don’t waste energy trying to teach those uninterested in turning how to steer.